Tuesday, June 9, 2009

put away your weed wackers and hug your loved ones, darn it!

Why oh why do our neighbors despise us so much? Seriously, if I sit here and think really hard, the *only* thing I can come up with is the fact that my lawn is only manicured to about 75%. Honestly, I have a lot of other things to spend my time and money on than garden gnomes and marigolds. I enjoy mowing the lawn, but that's pretty much where the enjoyment stops. Does that make us bad people?

The complaints have been many. Once, when my sister left her car in MY driveway for a few days while she was out of town, we got a letter (there are no neighborhood rules concerning anything of this nature). Another time, when the neighbors dog tried to bite Rich's leg off so he shooed it away with a rake, we were confronted my the neighbor, who physically threatened Rich. Now, our cat is apparently pooping and destroying another neighbors yard. When asked which cat it was (we have 3) the neighbor replies "well I don't know, I don't catch him in the act". It couldn't possibly be any of the other neighborhood cats that run amok in our neighborhood. It must have been ours, because after all, we are the hoodlums. I swear they are trying to drive us out of the neighborhood.

Why oh why do people get so uptight about this stuff? Don't they know there are things that are so, so much more important in life?

A little dude in our local area, 3 year old Yano, is currently battling stage 4 neuroblastoma. 3 flippin years old, and given a 30% chance at survival. . It pisses me off and breaks my heart. No one should have to suffer from cancer, especially not a 3 year old. My heart breaks for him , and for his family. Especially his mom and dad. I would just die if I had to watch either one of my boys fight for their lives. No, of course I would stay strong for them, but a huge part of me would just die on the inside, no doubt about it.

You know, I feel so good every time someone makes a donation to the UCF as a part of my running, or any of the other fundraising I've done in the past. I feel like I'm doing my part to help make a difference. And then you hear about ANOTHER baby fighting for his life. Excuse my language, but it fucking SUCKS. It makes you feel defeated.

I don't know why I've gotten so emotional over this little boy and his family whom I've never met. Maybe it's the momma in me, having a little boy of my own almost the exact same age. Maybe because it has once again hit so close to home; many of my friends little ones go to pre-school with Yano. It could have been any one of our babies. And of course, my neighbors striking a nerve over something so silly and insignificant in the big picture obviously pissed me off a bit. I don't know. But I do know this: I will never give up doing what I can to fight cancer, even if what I do is just a blip on the radar. It's still better than sitting idle and watching cancer break more hearts and spirits.


Local people: Mark your calendars: A lunch for Yano will be from 11-2 on June 26th at the Villa Romana. Each ticket is $8 and you will go to Villa Romana to pick up your spaghetti lunch. you have the option of meat or tomato sauce, salad, bread stick, and drink. Proceeds are going to HELP YANO FIGHT NEUROBLASTOMA.You must call by the 24th of June to buy a ticket. Check out their facebook page for further information: Help Yano Fight Neuroblastoma

Thanks guys and gals. And sorry for the emotional rant today . Don't give up the fight.


7 comments:

Marlene said...

Life can be so unfair. :(

Josh and Sabrina said...

:( i like spagetti, Sis LOVES spagetti, maybe we'll come down?

Kelly's runner said...

Heather,

I completely understand how you feel. I have times I feel so discouraged by this relentless onslaught of cancer.

We just have to do what we can and keep fighting for Yano, for Trista, and so many others, too many others.

I have cried many times for people I have never met. I think it is what makes us human.

Hang in there. What you are doing is making a difference. You are providing support and hope to people with your efforts.

Cancer never wins. Cancer didn't win with Kelly, not with Laiken.

Cancer-game on!

Ross

Mel -Tall Mom on the Run said...

"I have a lot of other things to spend my time and money on than garden gnomes and marigolds" it is amazing how some people prioritize their lives. As if having a well manicured lawn is more important than PEOPLE. Seriosuly!! I plan to have a chat with my hubby about our ability to donate this year. One one income things can get tight but Cancer took my Grandma and I would love to give as much as I can...

DC Running Mama said...

I get totally emotional about anything related to kids these days...I think it is because I never really understand the bond between child and parent until I had my little guy. As the quote goes, having a child is like living with your heart outside your body for the rest of your life. As for the neighbors, I would just laugh at them and feel sorry that they are missing out on the bigger things in life. My grandmother has a framed quote in her house that reads: "A clean house is the sign of a misspent life." I love my grandmother. And, kudos to you for doing your little part to help fight cancer!

DC Running Mama said...

never really UNDERSTOOD. Ug. I think I have about 1/2 a brain cell left.

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